Loving Freely
by Adele Leung
Man: I love you because I send you flowers.
Woman: I love you because I take care of the domestic responsibilities.
Man: I love you because I bring in the dough.
Woman: I love you because I pander to your wishes.
Man: I love you because I shoulder your baggage.
Woman: I love you because I worry about you.
Man: I love you because…
Woman: I love you because…
Is loving based on beliefs and ideals really Love?
Can Love be defined within certain limitations, and only within those confinements?
Our heart knows so much more about Love than our minds. Loving with our minds can easily create judgement, and within Love, how could there be judgement? I have loved within beliefs and have been loved also within strong ideals, neither way was truly Love. Loving with the mind, we are capable to hurt and be hurt. Loving with the fullness of the heart, we see Love in everyone and everything, it is impossible to hurt. To truly Love freely, is simply to Love always with the guidance from the heart. As in every living moment, the heart knows much more than the mind could ever imagine, because it could not.
Love is really very simple.
I am trying to be honest with myself and listen to myself and care myself more.
It is hard though.
How can u tell a difference between voices from yr heart and those from your brain?
It begins with feeling…slowly you will discover markers which are your heart speaking, and those that are not. You will also begin to discover, where exactly is your inner-heart, the place where Truth resides.
Thank you! I will work on it.
Happy Chinese New Year
Happy year of the Dragon to you too!